Today is Day Seventeen of “The Respect Dare” and we are going to work on encouraging our husbands.
“Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” ~ Proverbs 16:24 NIV
We are nearing the half-way point in our Respect Dare. I am painfully aware of my failures even as I write this. I know that The Lord is working in and through me. But I feel like such a huge transformation is needed and I’m moving at a snails pace. I look forward to hearing my husband one day making note of changes in me because of this. But right now that feels awfully far away.
We all know how good it feels to be encouraged and appreciated but often are lacking in how we express it in kind to our husbands. This dare is all about noticing your husband’s strengths and taking the time to thank and encourage him in these areas.
When Jason was living with friends in Northern Virginia during the week and home on weekends two years ago while we waited first for our house in West Virginia to sell and then to find our current home, I would regularly send a card hidden in his work laptop case with him the next week to make sure he knew how much I loved, appreciated, and missed him. Things have gotten busy and I admit that I’ve slacked in this area. So, I’m going to work on randomly doing that again. I know how much it blessed him then.
What are the areas that your husband is strong in and how can you encourage him? Write him a note telling him how much you love him and appreciate those specific areas. Hide little love and appreciation notes in places that you know he will eventually find.
And, if you are bold, in one of the love notes give him a personal invitation to a private time of intimacy that is all about him. Be specific and enjoy being creative.
Heavenly Father, thank You for the amazing gift you have given me in my husband. He has always worked hard to provide for us. I am so thankful that he has a job that he loves and that covers our needs. I pray that you would help me to be an encourager of my husband and that I would not be focused on my own needs, but instead focused on meeting his.
Thank You for giving me such an amazing husband who truly desires for me to be happy and always tells me how beautiful I am to him. I pray that I would be at least as much of a blessing to him as he is to me, if not more.
In Jesus’ Name… Amen!
If you are just joining us, I am doing “The Respect Dare” 40 day challenge along with the ladies at Unbroken Woman and others.
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DAY 17 STUDY LEADERS’ LINKS
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Godspeed… ~ Tiffani